A lot of people, both back in the UK and who we have met along the way, have been a little surprised that we have embarked upon this crazy adventure with our children in tow. The equation was simple, really – we can spend our lives waiting to have an adventure in our retirement years, then spend hours telling our children all about it and boring them with the photos we take, perhaps even inspiring them to take the same path sometime in their later years, or we do it now. Together. We make memories and have adventures that will last for all our lifetimes. Simple, really.
On the road together
That is not to say that RVing our way around the US with two children is easy – but it certainly hasn’t presented as many challenges as I had feared. We have set some guidelines as a family that have ensured that we rub along together reasonably well – I will share them with you if you are interested!
Learning as we go
Learning new things!
Rules:
The girls drew up their own set of rules before we set out in Sundance. When we first arrived in the USA we spent some time looking at the early pilgrims and the journey on the Mayflower. The first settlers drew up a set of laws called the Mayflower Compact so we have our own Sundance Compact! It is pinned on the fridge and we refer to it all the time!
Travelling:
A lot of our days are spent travelling long distances, spending hours in the truck while hauling our home from one state to the next. Although it’s the name of our blog, we don’t want to listen to an interminable loop of “are we nearly there?” so we do opt for in-car entertainment for the kids. I have an objection to the use of TVs in cars; what is the point of travelling, when the journey is just as important as the destination, if the kids miss it all because they are gazing at a small screen? Our concession to boredom is audio books. We have listened to some together by playing them through the truck’s stereo, and the girls both have their own iPods that I load with new stories before each long journey. So far they have worked their way through the last two books of the Harry Potter series (Katie), the complete collection of Narnia (both) some gems from Enid Blyton (both), a few Jaqueline WIlson novels and a selection of other contemporary stories. Next we have the complete LIttle House on the Prairie collection to listen to!
Sightseeing:
When we are seeing somewhere new the girls spend as much time looking at the scenery as we do. In National Parks, they look out of the windows – partly because their junior ranger challenge usually has a scavenger hunt, partly to spot wildlife and mostly because, on the few occasions when they haven’t paid attention, one of them has missed out on something! We discuss our route and destinations together, for the most part. The girls help plan what we are doing next and also enjoy plotting on a map the routes we have travelled.
Maps:
There are not enough walls in our RV to display all our maps! We have one of each state we have visited, and on each we have drawn our route, our stops along the way and our destination. We would love to have all these on view but space simply doesn’t allow it, so we just have the current and previous state on display. In the toilet. Which means that we all come from the smallest room with a comment about where we have been and where we are going next!
TV:
When we picked up the RV it came with a very small TV in the main bedroom. We switched it on once to check it worked (it does!) and since then we have not plugged it in again. The shelf in the living room which is meant for a TV is decorated with fairy lights and houses a printer and our laptops. Instead, where there should be a screen you will find a whiteboard with our collection of fridge magnets and scribbles about our current location. I honestly don’t know where we would find the time for TV viewing anyway – our days and evenings are just too busy! If we need a bit of screen time, we can watch a DVD on the laptop but this happens rarely, and none of us seem to miss it.
Being helpful!
Friends:
This is a tough one. In the summer, the girls were surrounded by other kids and had a great time socialising with new friends. This happens much less frequently Now that American kids are back at school, but we still do run into children of the right age occasionally. Some live at the RV campgrounds, some are home-schooled, a few are on holiday. When the girls do find children to play with they are very excited and keen to socialise! Katie is keeping in touch with the friends she has made along the way and with friends from home by email and has also managed some “FaceTime” conversations with her old school friends.
School:
We haven’t spent as much time doing formal schooling as I had anticipated. We have completed a few topics together and every day the girls are both set a Morning Challenge – a worksheet to give them a focussed way to begin the day. On the other side of the coin I also think that they have been learning a lot more in an informal way than I thought possible.
What better way to learn about types of rock, than to go to a place where igneous rocks were formed there by a volcano just 100 years ago, or to drive along a valley lined by cliffs that pre-date the dinosaurs? How about seeing how the penal system works by being shut in a cell in a real prison, or talking about erosion while walking through a disappearing landscape. Every part of this vast country has a modern history that began with the European settlers and also a history of the native people, whose stories and traditions are a real and beautiful way to re-tell past events. Every day the girls see and experience something new and exciting, and these are things that they will remember forever, not just a piece of paper that will be filed away in a folder and forgotten about at the end of term.
Early morning sewing crafts
Once in a lifetime experiences
I’ll be honest – we have all had “one of those days” from time to time, and we have yelled, disagreed and sulked (I include myself and Keith in all of these!) but these times are few and far between. On the whole, we have been amazed, laughed and loved… and continue to do so.
– Em X